Formal Wedding
I like to have a informal meet and greet coffee with the prospective couple before the wedding. This coffee date gives us the opportunity to meet each other before, and also gives the couple the opportunity to tell me a bit more about themselves so I have a better understanding of who they are before their big day. This coffee date also affords the couple the opportunity to voice any special preferences they may have in terms of which passage/scripture verse they would like me to use on the day.
The ceremony itself is approximately 30minutes where I will share a passage of scripture out of the Bible and share a very informal message as per the request from the couple. From here I move onto the wedding format and vows.
After the wedding ceremony the original wedding documentation and copy of the signed register will be handed in to the Department of Home Affairs for the registration of the marriage.
Private Wedding
Typically a private wedding party would include the bride and groom and 4 guests, two of which would include the two witnesses who will sign the wedding register on the day.
A private wedding ceremony is generally for couples who do not want a formal wedding ceremony, however at the same time do not simply want to marry at home affairs. Here you get the option to keep it small and quick, yet still intimate at the same time with your closest nearest and dearest there to witness your special union.
After the ceremony the documentation is handed in at Home Affairs for the registration of the marriage.
Legal Registered Marriage Certificate plus travelling fee to the venue and back charged at standard AA rates
Wedding Therapy
I have been a pastor for almost 40 years, and have had the privilege to marry hundreds of couples over the years. I have a passion for the COVENANT of marriage as it’s been intended by the Holy Spirit. I believe that part of my calling and gifting is to help couples understand the fullness of what that means in practice in their everyday lives as a married couple negotiating areas like finances, kids, work, family, in-laws etc.
Should a couple consider premarital counselling, I would typically advise them to book 3 sessions, however, couples are free to choose however many sessions they feel comfortable with.
I also do post-marriage counselling.
Hello! I’m Bennie Smit
Licensed Marriage Officiant
It’s your big day, Your moment, Your CELEBRATION, How & where you want, Let me share this journey with you
Private Wedding
Wedding Couple + 4 Guests- Wedding couple plus 4 guests
- Legal Registered Marriage
- Certificate plus travelling fee to the venue and back charged at standard AA rates
Formal Wedding
Wedding at your venue- Formal Wedding Ceremony (Abridged or unabridged): Wedding ceremony conducted at the venue of your choice.
- Meet and greet coffee before, Legal Registered Marriage Certificate.
- Travelling fee to the venue and back charged at standard AA rates.
Couples Counseling
1 hour sessions- Conducted at Mugg & Bean in Cradelstone or Key West shopping centre, alternatively travel will be charged to and from a different venue charged at standard AA rates
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Frequently Asked Questions
Documentation required if you have never been married before and are both South African citizens:
- A copy of each of your South African ID
- 3 x ID photos each
- A copy of each of your two witnesses South African ID
• Should you have a pre-nuptial agreement in place, I will require a copy of the cover letter from your lawyer
Documentation required if either of you have been married before and are both South African citizens:
- A copy of each of your South African ID
- 3 x ID photos each
- A copy of each of your two witnesses South African ID
- Copy of the decree of divorce/death certificate (whichever applies) from Home Affairs
• Should you have a pre-nuptial agreement in place, I will require a copy of the cover letter from your lawyer
Can I get married at my home:
Yes, you are more than welcome to get married at home
No you will automatically be married in community of property unless you have a pre-nuptial contract that is concluded by an attorney
Can I marry anywhere in South Africa?
Yes you can, however a travelling fee will be charged additionally for anything further than 10km from Key West Shopping centre. This travelling fee will be charged at standard AA rates going to and from the venue
Must we come for marriage counselling before the wedding?
This is by no means a pre-requisite, however from experience I have seen that it can greatly aid in helping to lay the foundation for a successful marriage.
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